I’m a bit of an intellectual and have been fascinated with women’s sexuality-what attracts a woman to a certain type of man, their feelings as they pursue a sexual experience with a desirable man even as they love another.  I had a cuckold experience in the very beginning of my relationship with my wife. I thought I was abnormal for wanting it, but later I discovered on the internet a whole world of men who had same feelings as myself. I learned a lot about others experiences since 1992 by talking with men and women who had similar experiences. It seems to me that cuckolding can be a part of a good marriage, but it’s an advanced stage for a marital relationship. Only through knowing yourself and your spouse intimately can you make cuckolding an experience that deepens your love for each other.

It is fairly well documented now that we are born with the biological reasons for cuckolding. Read “The Red Queen” for more info on this, but basically in mammalian species a female wants to secure a male to provide for her offspring, but desires to mate with dominant males who exhibit superior traits, including physical characteristics, to assure she has offspring that will pass along her genes.

That being said,  I beleive that the biological “force” should be recognized and culturally better accepted, particularly as we see more women with financial independance and assuming greater roles in business and politics. It seems our culture is evolving that way, and perhaps the sexual relationship within a marriage will evolve as well.

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